At some point in my life I’ve developed these beliefs; these things that I thought I had to do in order to feel better with myself. Where did they come from??? I have learned that everything in life is a learned behavior, but how did I develop this one belief?
--What’s funny to me is that I’ve
been telling myself that I should go back and get through my past experiences. Essentially
feel and deal with those bottled emotions. Honestly, that’s what I’ve been
doing in therapy for almost 2 decades. My perception and thought was… “Only
then will I feel that deeper sense of myself.” I would tell myself… If I don’t
help “me” then I cannot help others. But the truth of the matter is that I already
am, I have been, and that will never stop.
Here’s to a FB post that allowed
a very dear person in my life to provide a great perspective and unsolicited advice.
True words of wisdom! –Thank you!
HER ADVICE” MAYBE YOU SHOULD FORGET THE DOWN AND
DIRTIER SHIT...SOMETIMES IT IS WISE TO MOVE FORWARD IN THE SERVICE TO
OTHERS...YESTERDAYS ARE GONE”
That concept has shifted my
thinking in a different direction. Yes, moving forward. What does Kim want? Let’s
start asking more quality questions about the future; my future self, instead
of going backwards to old discoveries which don’t really matter for me today.
Yes, those situations have affected me in some way or form, but just like my job…
it does NOT define me!
Love & Light!
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